Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Veterans Day 2014

Happy Veteran's Day






Its Veterans Day today.  Over the past 6 plus years I have had the opportunity to work first hand with Veterans on a daily basis.  It has been a wonderful thing for me.  Not only to I work with Veterans but over 25% of the staff are Veterans as well.  I have learned so much from the stories they tell.  I have been able to participate in the Run for the Wall, ok not participate but go out and meet the men and women on the journey. It is awesome to listen to them.  I have had the opportunity to listen to Wounded War Fighters tell their amazing stories!
 
Recently I heard a Veteran say he wishes returning home from Vietnam was like it was today.  I asked him to tell me more.  He shared that they "were not heroes", he felt people didn’t like them.  He said he never talked about his military experience until recently.   He said today people care about Veterans.  That really affected me for some reason.  I grew up with people all around me that were in the Vietnam war but I know so little about it.  My dad was in the Navy on an Aircraft Carrier and to be honest I know little about his Military experience.  The only thing he ever really talked about was a friend of his that died, Danny Vandivier.  When we went to Washington DC my Dad refused to visit the Wall.  I never really understood why and I still don’t.  I feel like as small as it is it is a symbol of respect to those men and women that died.


My dad, Steve Yochem, and his Aunt Lou Zeagler on the USS Bennington in 1970.

My grandfather, Joseph Yochem
 
My senior year of High School I had a friend that was  a year older them me that had enlisted in the Army and was sent to Germany.  We wrote letters often and visited when he came home. Oddly I feel like I know more about his military experience them my own dads.  The letters he wrote were all about what he was doing as a medic with quite graphic stories.  Many of the men and women I work with now were in the Gulf War and I feel like I can relate to them when they tell their stories.
 
Mikes cousin is career Air Force and a Lt Col and Mikes Nephew is in the Air Force.  I have great respect and admiration for both of them.  I have loved listening to Joel’s stories over the years about some of the things he did.  In 2014 we were able to skype with Kevin while he was in Saudi which was awesome.  We have been fortunate enough to visit them as they have moved around the Country and visit Air Force Bases.  Both of these men have coined Cole which has made him a very happy kid!

 

 
When Jordan Spears died recently it really affected me.  I knew Jordan, he had been to our house.  He was really a great kid.  He was just too young to die.  When you see a news story on a service member dying it is sad but when you know the person it is much worse and totally real!  It is something I really can't put into words.  Everyday when I pass Jordan's driveway I pray for him, his family and friends, and all those serving this great Country.
 
Cole and I had the privilege to meet Bryan Anderson in early 2014.  I hope this will be a day Cole will always remember!  This man is a triple amputee and truly and inspiration to every person.  Cole and I watched him on an episode of Hawaii 5'0 earlier this year and I have never been prouder!  This man has left an impression on my son that will likely stay with him forever!  No matter what you never give up!  Bryan has every reason to give up, instead he is leaving his mark on the world!  If you want to see the world through his eyes pick up a copy of his book, NO Turning Back.  Trust me you'll love it!  Most of all enjoy his story about driving at Walter Reed!  It  was a great story to read but even better to hear him tell the story!  We are proud of your Bryan!
 
 
 
If you are not a Veteran and want to understand the Veterans a bit more, I encourage you to pick up one of these books:
Into the Fire: A Firsthand Account of the Most Extraordinary Battle in the Afghan War
One of my favorite books ever.  Dakota is an amazing man the truly shares his story which made me feel like I was there and his personal story which is completely awe inspiring.

No Turning Back: One Man's Inspiring True Story of Courage, Determination, and Hope


 

 

A great book about a Marine that really makes you have an understanding of what he went through!

"Our Veterans are loyal, easily trained, accustomed to being members of a team, and they're mature. They have a foundation of character and experience that any business would want to build upon,:  Howard Schultz, For Love of Country.

I am proud to be an American and I'm proud of and thankful for Veterans and Active Duty Servicemen and Women.
 
 

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Quote/Poem

 
I was about 20 in Nursing School at IU when a teacher asked us to share a quote with the class.
I had never really thought about quotes so I really didn't know where to start.  I went to the library and found some books but nothing appealed to me.  The assignment date was nearing and I had nothing.  One night I was working in the computer lab and there was a magazine there and I was flipping through it when this quote jumped out of the page to me.
 
I was dying
First I was dying to finish high school and start college.
And then I was dying to finish college and start working.
And then I was dying to marry and have children.
And then I was dying for my children to grow old enough for school so I could return to work.
And then I was dying to retire.
And now, I am dying…and suddenly I realize I forgot to live.
 
It stuck me in a way I had never imagined.  I was very early into the quote or poem,  whichever you chose to call it, but I understood it.  I was so ready to graduate from college and get a job.  I was already thinking about marriage and kids.  I wasn't living in the present I was hoping for a future.  I started learning to live in the present.  You will rarely hear me say I cant wait for .......  I can wait.  I love Christmas and snow, but I don't want to rush the rest of the year to get there.  I enjoy the beauty and new life of spring, as well as windows open, sun shining, and short wearing.  Then there is summer.  I love mild summers, vacations, fun trips and swimming.  The smells of fall, the crisp leaves under foot, hoodies, football, and fires.  I do enjoy life throughout the year.
 
I'm thankful for this attitude so early on in my life.  It helped me to enjoy the here and now and make the most of it.  It helped me make choices that have caused few regrets.  My kids have done things Mike and I really didn't get to do.  They have been on trips with all of their grandparents.  This may seem like no big deal to some people but to me its important.  They were able to spend quality time with their grandparents and got to know them in a different way.  The bottom line is living in the present has created a world of few regrets for me.   Enjoy today so you also have no regrets.
 
Don't rush things. Don't wish for tomorrow. When today is gone, it is gone.  Create memories today. While you are planning for tomorrow do something today.  Honestly its the crazy things you will always remember.  Go to a park and play.  It really doesn't matter how old the kids are, when early teens think no one is looking they still act like kids.  Throw a football in the yard, play a game of scrabble, set up a tent, make cookies together, etc.  It really doesn't matter what you do but enjoy today with the people you love and care about and make every day count.
 
 I love snow!
 
Santa Claus
 
Easter:  Enjoying a Spring Day
 
Summer Swimming
 
 
Do you have a favorite Quote or Poem?  Share it...
 
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